I am asking myself, should the blog stay or should it disappear quietly without fanfare. It must pass the test, of its affective effect. I don't want it to be a source of tears and pain, even though tears and pain can be safely put here with no harm. It's worthiness is on its spread of milestones, indicating events, little bumps and potholes along the never ending highway. There will be wear and tear, but the destination is clear, and the car is alright.